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HIDDEN MESSAGES
INTRODUCTION
We are all
looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think, "Now, finally,
here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've
always wanted."
So we marry.
Then it starts---because we're not
programmed for love. Instead,
we are programmed to
duplicate our parents' relationship.
Because of this programming,
even if we found someone who loved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.
How can we attract what we are not programmed
to receive? We can't---until
we take a
conscious look at what we are programmed
to attract. Only then can we change our lives.
This program is
designed to help us do just that.
Your birth chart
interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your
birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with
other technical information, are listed below:
Sun 6 Vir 12
Pluto 2
Vir 10
Moon 15 Pis 38
N. Node 23 Lib 05
Mercury 25 Leo
23
Asc. 18
Ari 13
Venus 17 Leo 09
MC
9 Cap 34
Mars 22 Tau 04
2nd cusp 24 Tau 35
Jupiter 28 Lib
33
3rd cusp 18 Gem 46
Saturn 19 Sag 08
5th cusp 1 Leo 58
Uranus 13 Leo 30
6th cusp 1 Vir 55
Neptune 2 Sco 35
Tropical Placidus Daylight Savings Time observed
GMT: 02:00:00 Time Zone: 6 hours West
Lat. and Long. of
birth: 41 N 35 36 87 W 20 47
Aspects and orbs:
Conjunction: 10
Degrees
Opposition : 10
Degrees
Square : 10 Degrees
Trine : 10 Degrees
Sextile : 7 Degrees
HIDDEN MESSAGES
PROGRAMMING
She was an
extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an
extremely successful business woman---equal
to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for a
consultation because she was
considering
remarrying. Although her two
previous marriages had been unsuccessful, she longed for a
man with whom she could be happy. She was in my office because
she honestly wondered if that were possible.
In the course of the consultation,
she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career. Message:
BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been married several
times, so she was
programmed for multiple marriages.
Each time my client
married, her mother encouraged
her to leave her
husband. Her mother's message
was: MARRY, BUT DON'T STAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every
argument with each of her husbands. Message:
ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's
father was strong, but
distant and unaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND
UNAFFECTIONATE.
My client created this
situation in her marriages
and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers
put up a
good fight, but ultimately
they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THEN LEAVE.
The combination of verbal and non-verbal
messages produced a
woman who resented men, yet kept turning to them to make her happy.
Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her husbands to leave, she created
just that. She married
strong men and wound up emasculating them. She was looking
for love, but her
programming would not let her keep it.
Her fiancÚ played
right into the program.
He was stubborn and
determined. He was not a success in his career, although he had great
potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall
short. His ambitions were high, but he became a
dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. His programming explained
it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successful in his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated
for an extremely prestigious
award. Winning this award
would have meant financial
security for the rest of his life.
Unfortunately, another nominee was
selected as the winner.
From that point on, the son was
programmed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly
what he did in every area of life.
His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic
father had given him the message that THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENT
THAN WOMEN.
These two were
programmed for each other.
Here was a
chauvinist up against a powerful woman; a business failure up against a
business success. Neither one,
however, was programmed for a warm, loving
relationship, though that's what they both wanted.
When faced with a situation like this, the first reaction
might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these two people
were attracted to each other precisely because
they could give one
another what each was programmed to receive.
And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another.
This love could, if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm, loving
relationship.
This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply
ingrained in our subconscious
that we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden
messages is that YOU CANNOT BE HAPPY
WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you are never
happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, just knowing that a relative might be unhappy about
something can upset you. After awhile, this
message can be triggered
simply by the suggestion
of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feel bad. This
totally destroys your enjoyment
of life.
Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (OR MOTHER, OLDER SISTER,
YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this
message, you will see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of a
success in his life,
where does that leave you?
We have been told that if we will live up to the
potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives will work. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple:
they ARE working, or at least the hidden messages are
working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, we can be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.
YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES
THE SUN
Your father takes you from the
security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helps you form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.
Sun in Virgo:
Your father taught you
that perfection is its own reward. He taught you to work and worry about the
details.
Sun in 6th house:
The center of your life
is your work and you have to be busy at all times. Your father taught you to
take pride in what you do, to be the leader of any project you undertake, but
not to be above tending to the small details. He was either proud of his health--or lack of it--and passed
this along to you.
Sun in hard aspect to
Moon:
You are programmed to
have difficulties in interpersonal relationships because of difficulties
between your parents at the time of your birth. Your tendency to clash with
people can affect your health.
Sun-Mercury angle
more than 10 degrees:
Your father taught you
to stand back from situations and people in order to see them objectively. This
applies to him as well. Because of your objectivity, you are able to converse
with others without constantly bringing the conversation back to yourself and
your opinions.
Sun in soft aspect to
Neptune:
Your father taught you
spirituality and selflessness. He is kind and willing to serve. You see only
the best in people because you see only the best in him--and he taught you to
see only the best in yourself. He is an inspiration to you.
YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE
THE MOON
The most important
person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both the
mother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels.
It might be said that since the subconscious is the repository of all past-life
experiences, your mother triggers this memory, which is why her influence is so
strong.
Your mother's main
message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon is
placed natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this
security. You received this message either directly or indirectly. She told you
where to look for it, and you spend the rest of your life looking for it where
she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes your mother,
as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or
difficult to find the security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the
promise of emotional security is elusive. Perhaps this is why you keep
returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be there this
time.
Keep in mind that these
messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actions as
well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.
Moon in Pisces:
Your mother can be
either a dreamy romantic or an escapist. She taught you to either turn the other
cheek, knowing it is the nature of love to forgive, or to be a martyr. She
either chooses not to see negativity around her, preferring to look at the
beauty of life, or she denies its existence and escapes into wishful thinking.
There is a quality of make-believe about her which may be her emotional
security. You both want a cause, a dream to live for. This is a beautiful
spiritual placement for the Moon, giving great inspiration. Your greatest
security comes from totally serving God.
Moon in 12th house:
Your mother taught you
to play a behind-the-scenes role, and possibly even to escape through food,
drink, sleep, etc. Her influence is hard to see clearly since she is posited in
the subconscious twelfth. She taught you to fulfill your emotional security
needs by being alone, possibly by her example. This can cause you to guard your
privacy tenaciously. She may have helped you on spiritual levels and in
metaphysical study Your true
freedom comes from letting go of wishful thinking.
Moon in hard aspect
to Sun:
Conflict between your
parents at the time of your birth created a pattern of difficulty in your
interpersonal relationships. You are not programmed to get along with others or
for things to flow smoothly. This can affect your health.
Moon in soft aspect
to Mars:
You and your mother deal
directly and forthrightly with each other. She taught you to channel your
energies positively without wasting them. As a result, you are able to get
things done quickly and easily. You have a good rapport with both men and
women. You function well in competitive situations.
Moon in hard aspect
to Saturn:
Your mother is moody and
depressed, and gave you the message that you're not supposed to be happy while
a family member is unhappy. Also that you are somehow responsible for their
unhappiness and, therefore, responsible for making them happy by being unhappy
yourself. It's hard for either of you to have fun---life holds too much
responsibility. There can be walls up between your mother and her family, and
between you and your mother. You are afraid of the responsibility and emotional
commitment required in a close relationship. This can make you cold, distant
and unaffectionate. Lack of love can depress you and lead to self-pity.
MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES
Saturn is reality
and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent
your mother, father, grandparents,
family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence
on your life and tries to teach you reality through
discipline.
Saturn in
Sagittarius:
The authority figures in
your life may have been frustrated because they were not free, yet accepted
this philosophically. They taught you to be judicial and balance man's law with
God's law.
Saturn in 9th house:
The authority figures in
your life may have indicated that God is wrathful, vengeful, and should be
feared. Their philosophical approach was probably a traditionally religious
one. Your philosophy involves respect for and fear of power, and you take your
beliefs seriously.
Saturn in hard aspect
to Moon:
Restrictions imposed by
the authority figures in your life gave you the message that you are not
supposed to be happy while a family member is unhappy. Inherent in that message
is the implication that somehow, you are responsible for their unhappiness and
must, therefore, make them happy by being unhappy. You are afraid to get in
touch with your emotions. Instead, you suppress them.
Saturn in soft aspect
to Mercury:
The authority figures in
your life taught you to think practically, logically and conservatively. You
can analyze situations objectively.
Saturn in soft aspect
to Venus:
The authority figures in
your life gave you a secure feeling of being loved. As a result, you are loyal
in love and able to maintain a long-term relationship. You do not take love
lightly. When you love, you willingly assume your responsibility for the
relationship. You are not looking for wild, exciting love, but steady, reliable
love.
Saturn in soft aspect
to Uranus:
You are able to break
loose, be yourself and still not lose your dignity. This is because the
authority figures in your life gave you permission to do so. You are a
combination of the traditional and non-traditional, and can combine the best of
old and new. You can deal with the masses and still remain in charge of your
life.
Saturn in soft aspect
to North and South Nodes:
Good rapport with
authority figures in past lives makes it easy to get along with them in this
one. You will learn the lessons that society has to teach. You can attain power
and use it wisely.
PLUTO
Pluto is another
indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Pluto
represents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing
planet. Pluto deals with all the mysteries of life: life itself, where it
originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto and the aspects it
makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude
towards sex.
Pluto's house placement indicates where
there can be a power play with your mother, where you will both try to dominate
and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. You control because
you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto
falls.
While Pluto represents
your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use whichever
word applies to you.
Pluto in Virgo:
Pluto in Virgo
gives you a different attitude about work, health and how to serve others.
Pluto in 6th house:
Your mother's attempt to
control your work makes you determined to be in control. The need to constantly
maintain this control and/or the inability to forgive those who control you can
affect your health, especially the elimination or reproductive areas. Forgiving
them will free you of vindication and heal you. There can be a total change in
your work at some point in your life. You can become involved in something which
was not invented or discovered at the time of your birth.
Pluto in hard aspect
to Sun:
At the time of your
birth your parents were involved in a power play. There was a lack of trust
between them. They could not forgive and forget. This led to their resentment
and vindication, which set the tone for your own relationships. You are
manipulative and controlling, and find it hard to trust others. You do not
forget past hurts. You want to dominate and lead, and resent those who do.
Pluto in hard aspect
to Mercury:
It may be hard to
communicate with your mother because you cannot trust her not to entrap you
with your own words. This can extend to others, making you suspicious and
mistrustful. Your mind is quick and deep, but negative psychic impressions can
block the flow. You may have a hope-for-the-best-but-expect-the-worst approach
to life.
Pluto in soft aspect
to Jupiter:
You and your mother are
good friends. You may share similar philosophies and/or give each other the
space to have your own opinions. She taught you to be optimistic, generous and
friendly. As a result, you are well-liked. You have a natural understanding of
universal law that gives you peace--you know that everything is working out for
the best.
Pluto in soft aspect
to Neptune:
There is a positive
psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and
you have vision and insight.
THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES
The fourth house relates
to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes the
parent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional
astrology gives the mother rulership over this house because she has been the
nurturing parent, the one who stayed home and cared for the family. Today,
though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides the
emotional security.
The tenth house rules
your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It is
your father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As
such, the tenth house traditionally relates to him.
There are no set rules
as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles.
Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually
to determine which parent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.
The relationship between
the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and the security
they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what
you need from one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able
to fulfill your needs. Lack of emotional security in the home can lead to
compensation in the career. The career, then, can become a parent replacement.
The signs on the cusps
of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding your
parents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to
exaggerate the descriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a
distinction between the two.
Cancer on 4th Cusp:
Since Cancer and mother
traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your mother
rules your fourth. This parent is sensitive, emotional, very attached to the
home and family, and takes things personally.
Capricorn on 10th
Cusp:
Since Capricorn and
father traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your
father rules your tenth. This parent is conservative, disciplined, stoic, and
concerned with what the neighbors will think.
THE ROVING DELEGATES
The signs represent principles to
be learned. The house cusp on
which a sign falls tells us the area of life in which that principle will be
learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one area of life, since
the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another
house.
It makes no difference what sign
falls on the cusp in question. We
simply link the sign with its ruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the
eleventh, the ruler of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus
is in the eleventh. The same
concept applies in each case.
The house in which the fourth or tenth
house ruler falls gives us more information regarding that parent's messages.
Ruler of 4th house in
12th:
This parent's influence
is hidden and difficult to discern.
The message is to find security in privacy. He or she could have directed you toward the spiritual, or
the make-believe.
Ruler of 10th house
in 9th:
This parent influences
your philosophy and attitude toward God. Your philosophy may involve power and
authority. He or she taught you to
expand your career and your horizons in general through study or travel.
A FINAL WORD
Now that you've
looked at your programming,
you may be wondering
if it will control you forever or if there is
something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it and yourself to God in
complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you are coming from
unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know that you are protected and loved.